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themary
03-22-2005, 02:54 PM
My daughter, who is now 3 1/2 yrs old has autistic traits but isn't consistent. Some days it is obvious she has autism and other times even I get fooled into thinking she may be ok. How typical is that?

Her dx was borderline autistic in Sept of last year. She is in special preschool now getting speech and some physical therapy. She is about a year behind in both speech and gross motor. I don't know what to think of my daughter to be honest. Today I am 100% sure she has autism because mostly she is not trying to communicate. And she is rubbing her face a lot and my fingers. She has done that since she was 4 months old. On bright eyed days it’s hard to imagine that she has autism.

SO where dose she land in this spectrum? If her autism is seen half the time then does that mean we have a 50/50 chance that she will be more severe? Other labels she received were PDD-NOS greatest delay in speech.
What have others seen over the years in their child with this similar diagnosis? Do they typically improve? Is this a pivotal moment that can go so drastically either way? I just thought today "Wow, this is really happening". I still struggle after all these months with accepting all this.

Deester
03-22-2005, 03:13 PM
You need to let yourself accept it.

Second. They change year to year. Issues seem to come and go while others are constant.

Sorry, there is no crystal ball. My daughter who is 5 now is doing pretty well. We identified her autism early and have been working really hard on programs and therapies. She loves school so that helps everyone. She's a hard worker and it's paying off.

We do have issues more intense than a few years ago while others are almost non-exsistant. So I feel like it's a barter. Some you get some you give away. There is minimal control over what they are.

Do your best at seeing what she needs to get and make sure she gets it.

Denise